Firstly, don't ever make yourself suffer for someone who you think is worth it but in the actual fact, they aren't.
Don't ever suffer for someone who doesn't even care much about your existence. You don't owe anyone your life (unless someone legit saved your life then that's different) and you live it the way you want. Don't ever shortchange yourself for someone who is not sensitive to your feelings and just take you as a back-up plan cause you are way more worthy than that. You deserve someone who place you as his/her priority and never a second choice. You deserve the love someone can give you wholeheartedly and not bits and parts of it.
Secondly, if it is meant to be, it will be.
Trust me. I don't believe this shit either. But in the actual fact, this is true. You may lose someone once but if it is meant to be, he/she will come back to you. Sometimes, some stuffs can never be forced to be the way you want it to be cause life is never fair. You just have to hang on and move forward even if it is draining you out mentally and physically but it is part of life. Some people come and go while some stay and some may leave and come back again. This is just what you call "Life". The person you are meant to be with will come and even if you have once lost him/her, he/she will still come back. (I know this sounds ridiculous cause personally, I don't believe too. But this had just happened to me recently. Someone who i once lost that was once so dearly to me came back to my side.)
Don't ever suffer for someone who doesn't even care much about your existence. You don't owe anyone your life (unless someone legit saved your life then that's different) and you live it the way you want. Don't ever shortchange yourself for someone who is not sensitive to your feelings and just take you as a back-up plan cause you are way more worthy than that. You deserve someone who place you as his/her priority and never a second choice. You deserve the love someone can give you wholeheartedly and not bits and parts of it.
Secondly, if it is meant to be, it will be.
Trust me. I don't believe this shit either. But in the actual fact, this is true. You may lose someone once but if it is meant to be, he/she will come back to you. Sometimes, some stuffs can never be forced to be the way you want it to be cause life is never fair. You just have to hang on and move forward even if it is draining you out mentally and physically but it is part of life. Some people come and go while some stay and some may leave and come back again. This is just what you call "Life". The person you are meant to be with will come and even if you have once lost him/her, he/she will still come back. (I know this sounds ridiculous cause personally, I don't believe too. But this had just happened to me recently. Someone who i once lost that was once so dearly to me came back to my side.)
Thirdly, don't give in to someone just because they are your priority.
Always giving in to someone just because they are your priority doesn't mean your efforts are going to be appreciated because it is just going to go wasted on someone who doesn't treat you the same as you treat them. Once you give in one time, there is gonna be a second time and so on. When this goes on, the person who will be in the most pain would be you, alone.
Always giving in to someone just because they are your priority doesn't mean your efforts are going to be appreciated because it is just going to go wasted on someone who doesn't treat you the same as you treat them. Once you give in one time, there is gonna be a second time and so on. When this goes on, the person who will be in the most pain would be you, alone.
Lastly, when it gets tiring mentally, emotionally and physically, it's time for you to let it go.
Don't ever hold onto someone that is draining you out mentally, emotionally and physically. When you start to feel this tired by someone, it only mean one thing and that is it's time for you to stop and let it go. If you feel tired of someone this way, means that you are always trying to keep some sort of a perfect image in front of this person which shows that you're not being your true self to that person. If you have to hide your true self in front of someone that you love, it's one sided love. Cause if the person loves you back, he/she will try his/her best to accept who you really are and also compromise.
