Simplest form of happiness

Honestly, I don't understand this quote "Happiness can come in the simplest form". Like, what do you mean by simplest form? Is there some complicated form of happiness or what? I asked a few people, in their perspective, what do they think of this quote in terms of their understanding. And I got this back,

" Happiness is derived from even the smallest of things. You can be happy that the day started out alright; you can be happy for the safety in our country; you can be happy for the food you have on your plate. It doesn't take much to be happy, you just have to have the right mindset to be happy! :) "

" It gives a perspective we don't usually perceive. People think happiness comes only after you do great things but no, little things can bring joy too. // From the small things we do we can always find a little happiness in it"

" There is no definite way to make someone happy. Also, happiness can come in many different ways for eg waking up in the morning can make me happy thinking that I could live another day. Looking at someone can be happy. Eating a 60c ice cream can make me happy. Saying hi can also make one happy. Like in a way, its how you perceive happiness. If just a simple action can make you happy, something like that to my point of view. "

I stated a few of them but honestly the first reply made a deep impression for me. Like happiness can come to you in every single little form you think that doesn't matter that much; happy for the food you have on your plate. Like it doesn't have to be you did something life changing that it affects you positively so you are happy about it. I don't get this idea of teens nowadays think that only being in a relationship, being rich or having everything you wanted in your life then that means you have happiness? Like there's some sort of terms and conditions before you are entitled to have happiness. And like the 3rd reply I have, " There is no definite way " happiness can come in every possible form that you least expected to or expected to.

Till 18, I could finally understand the meaning behind this quote. Maybe I was too hard of myself, maybe I was just too focused on materialistic stuffs, just maybe. The past few weeks, working in school and hanging out with my close friends made me understand this. Simply just frying churros or preparing cake for sales or even making pancakes for each other for breakfast with my classmates is happiness. They are the reason why I looked forward to school (apart from waking up at 5am) Meeting my bestfriend-s, my close friends or my juniors over a drink, over a meal or even teaching them how to bake a cake while I get a homecooked meal in return is happiness. The last person that made me fully understand this quote was my bestfriend, He dropped me a text near midnight,  just a text to show concern " You feeling better? " I mean sure, this is just a text, why are you happy over it? Like society have made us forgotten how small little things actually matters and makes you happy and not those materialistic stuffs such as bouquet of roses, expensive gifts and shit that should be the thing that makes you happy. It shouldn't be the case. Like even a text, a call or a homecooked meal that is kinda screwed up somewhere, it is still happiness.

I just wanna say, "happiness DO and CAN come in the simplest form" as long as you know what are the important things in your life. And, yep cheers to those who replied :)

Life.

Update ?¿

It was such a hectic week at work. There were so much drama that had happened. And particularly there is one that I would like to mention about. It was " double standard treatment " 

I know I am nothing much to look at and the way I talked resemble like a dude. But I am cool with it. So someone there did this "double standard treatment" and it was getting onto my nerves so badly. As much as I wanna stab that f*****, I wanna just chill the f*** out too. It bothered me so much that the very next day my mood was like shit and it was too obvious. I couldn't keep quiet about it anymore so I rant out to one of the senior there when we were both held back due to a class. He said this " Everyone has their own double standards, its up to you whether you want to allow it affect you or just let you know about someone else character. " I thought again and again but I just can't seem to get it out of my mind. So I told this thing to my close friends when we were smoking. And I told him that it was so irritating. Well, two can play that game. And he said this " If you were to do the same thing as he did, aren't you lowering your own standards to his? This just means you have become the same person as he is. . Don't you find that it is just a waste of time to even lower your standards to his level? " And this hit me so hard and I thought through what he said. Yes, he was right. Why did I even want to lower my standards to his level? It was so stupid of me to even waste my time getting pissed off and wanting to get back at him. Then I told this whole thing to my best friend. She said whatever my friend said was correct and if I really don't want to be affected by it, clear cut one line with the everyone that is associated with that guy so that you won't even be bothered by him. Holy crap, the moment I did that, my mood was so much better and my day wasn't that affected anymore. 

Life is always unfair. Nobody cares unless you are pretty or died. That's reality. All you ever have to do is to find someone that pace themselves together by your side and that's all that will ever matter. When something happens to you, the more you think about it, the more affected you are. And it's gonna end up you, being the one tortured by yourself. 

The other thing is " two faced "

Let's be honest, everyone is two faced. But whether you're being two faced to stop creating more problem for yourself like me or just lying for the sake of lying.

I am two faced so are you but you don't have to lie about it. You don't have to lie to me about whatever you want to do or whatever you think. One hand you tell me you hate it about everything but on the other hand, both of you are together. It is none of my business but it is irritating me about your obvious lies. If you wanna lie, make sure I don't find out. The thing is right now, I am not the only one who thinks this way, everyone around me is telling me the same thing too. They all think that you are lying so why the f*** are you trying to lie or cover just to entertain me. I don't need your entertainment nor do i need your attention. I am not a f***ing attention seeker so learn how to shut your trap sometimes. Like if you aren't tired, I am. I am so f***ing tired of every stupid drama I am getting involved for nothing. I am trying so hard to go along but the more you do, the more tiring it is for me to act for you. [ Yes btw I am also being two faced but its not like I have a choice, its just for me to create lesser drama in my life ] 

I think I really am done with my life for now. Everything seems to be draining me out so easily but too bad I still have to suck it up. Please let everything come to an end and just give me a break for a moment. I never ever ever want to relapse again.